Everything about living or being alive is about relationships. Even if we were to imagine ourselves as alone and the only person alive on the planet, it would still be true that it is all about relationships. If I am alone, I still have the single most important relationship we ever have which I can choose to ignore but cannot forsake. That is my relationship with my inner being, or my higher self, or the God within, my soul, or any of the hundreds of ways to view that connection and my relationship to it and in it.
This scenario helps to solidify the idea that as I am in alignment within my primary relationship, I may be beneficial and be benefited by relationships with other people.
As I am choosing (it is always a choice) to align within myself to my higher self, I feel the resonating vibration that indicates that alignment, and my emotional state of feeling good also helps indicate I am aligned within. As I choose to be out of alignment for whatever reason I am choosing, I feel the discord of that choice and it is reflected in my emotional state of feeling bad, off, or any of a long list of negative feelings such as frustration, anger, resentment, melancholy, depression, powerlessness, and more.
As we are feeling, or a more accurate way to say that is vibrating, we are attracting more of the same from within ourselves first and then from others outside of ourselves. The Law of Attraction is unerring in its help in drawing like vibrations to us. This applies equally and without prejudice to lower vibrations of disharmony and higher vibrations of complete alignment.
The old saying that the rich get richer and the poor get poorer is a perfect example of how the Law of Attraction aids in the expansion of the choice of mindset. Indeed, rich and poor are simply mindsets, or ideas and are reflected in feelings. Rich is not a condition, it is a state of mind, just as poor is not a condition but a state of mind. We may not have money, but that condition is not being poor. We may have a lot of money but that doesn’t cause us to be rich. Money is an object and being rich is an idea, or a thought, train of thought, mindset. Rich is then a choice or attitude as is being poor.
Whatever the status of alignment in our primary relationship, we will experience those attributes in all our other relationships. This is why people who have had unsatisfactory relationships and then leave that relationship in search of something more satisfying will attract very similar attributes of the relationship they thought they left behind. They haven’t yet come into alignment within so the without cannot change either. The very old wisdom, as within, so without is always true and will always be the wisest advice. Want the outside to change? We must change the inside first. It doesn’t matter if it is a husband and wife or the world order. The solution is always the same: As within, so without.