“It’s not whether you win or lose,
but how you play the game."  

— Grantland Rice

I might even modify Grantland Rice’s quote to say instead of it’s how you play the game, to it’s why you play the game that matters. 

Winning and losing is fun and no fun, but to just play to have fun, to feel good, that is the best. 

I was reading a quote by Abraham, Esther Hicks that said, “Wherever you are, is just fine. . . You can get to wherever you want to be from wherever you are. . . It’s time to stop measuring where you are in relationship to where anybody else is. The only factor that has anything to do with you is where you are in relationship with where you want to be." 

Chill. Enjoy. It just doesn’t matter. It doesn’t have to be anything more than helping you feel good. Happiness is a fine goal. And it is so much easier to get there without all that baggage that just doesn’t matter.