“Anything that is selfish, frankly, is not, could not, will not be love. “If I love you so much, you will never leave me," is not love. It is fear. “I love you so much I would never be with anybody else" is fear, and it is a projection on the other, the object of love, as leaving you. These are all manifestations of fear that you conjure and create with to bring about a distortion. And love will not be distorted. It cannot be. It cannot be tampered with because it is a high frequency. And a high frequency, so you see, will always stand in congruence with the Creative Source."

— Paul Selig
The Book of Love and Creation