Let me share the context from which this quote came which came from a question, “What phrases could I use that would be more beneficial to me?”:
“How does this serve me–exactly the way it is? Exactly the way it is: how does it serve me? What can I learn? How can I positively learn something from this?” When you let it be the way it is, that is when it has the greatest opportunity to change into something else. If you deny the form in which it comes, then you are not allowing yourself to see what is inherent within it. You are not allowing it to present itself in the way you have created it to present itself. You are denying your own creation.
Everything is just fine. In what you used to consider the most dire circumstances, let yourself realize everything is just fine. “I’m in control of this; look at how much control I have, to have created such an absolutely exciting scenario. Everything seems to be wild and hither and thither and all over the place, and seemingly wild and unconnected and out of control. But since I know I’m controlling that, look how much power I have.”
Get used to knowing and believing there is a positive manifestation that can occur from every scenario. With no exceptions!…. None. Trust that when [seemingly negative] things occur in your life–if you know you are doing the best you can do at that moment, and those things still occur, then assume it’s for a good reason, and let yourself see how it is for a good reason.
[When you’re focused on the negative side], you can’t see the positive side of the coin. You can’t see it until you choose to look at it. You have to decide consciously that you will look at the positive side of the coin in every single circumstance, or you will not be able to see positive manifestation. If that’s the way you choose to look at it, that’s the way you’ll experience your reality.”
That was shortened from two full pages of text, and yet now that you’ve read that, let me shorten it further. It comes down to two things:
1. Learn to accept that we all create our own reality, even when it doesn’t appear to be the reality we think we want. Awareness and acceptance is critical to our functional well-being.
2. Learn to flow with the go. Yes, I said that backward from the way it is normally said. When we learn to relax and flow with what is happening, we can then learn from it and change it as we will.
Last Monday, my hard drive on my main computer crashed and burned. The mirror hard drive was useless. For someone who runs an Internet business, this could easily be considered a disaster. That scenario is still unfolding, and won’t even be resolved for many more days. You don’t want to hear all the details. Trust me. Yet, because I have learned to flow with the go, and that I am in control of my own reality, I am finding the positives that are in this whole affair. I have found some, and I am certain because of the extent of the issue, there are more nuggets to find.
I am not even upset, whereas in the past I would have been ranting, raving, flailing about, blaming everyone and everything I could, demanding things be done, and generally being an unhappy camper. In the meantime, I’m making do with what I have to work with. You don’t know the peace this brings me to flow with this go. I am actually appreciative that it happened to demonstrate how I’ve learned to do this. That’s just one of the nuggets, and I look forward to the others as they arrive.
Sometimes Shit Happens, And I Accept Responsibility For That As I Adjust Myself To Flow With The Go.
Spread Some Joy Today–by simply being. You are joy. Though you may not always see it or spread it, you are joy. Let it be.