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[Classic post from 11-16-15]
What a marvelous and joyous way to live my life. Wherever I am, and whatever that I do throughout the day, to be in love is the ultimate joy.
I’ve seen a lot of movies where someone may say, “I’ve never been in love,” or “I want to be love,” or “when will love happen to me?” It’s as if love is only lavished upon someone who patiently awaits it, feels eventually that they deserve it, and becomes impatient of its absence. How sad–and so unnecessary.
To be in love is easy. Step one: Love. There is no step two. You’re done. Another, seemingly more practical word than that magical and mysterious word love, is to appreciate. Appreciation is love. When we appreciate, we are loving.
Where to begin. . . the mirror in the bathroom (or any other mirror). Loving self is probably the best place to begin. How to begin? Find things to appreciate in that image in the mirror. A smile will help break the ice. Not analyzing your pores will also be helpful. What can you appreciate about that image, that ‘you’ in the mirror? Every time you see yourself in a mirror, find things to appreciate. Smile. Watch those eyes light up when you do. Even if you appreciate the same things over and over, it’s good.
Now, everywhere you go today, everyone you see, every thing you see, every non-thing you see, find something to appreciate about it. The sky is blue. Check, It is a gorgeous blue. Better. The sky is magnificent! Way better. Look at all these cars and trucks and all different colors, sizes and shapes. Isn’t it fantastic that we have this transportation available to us at a moment’s notice to go wherever we desire to go? There is nothing as sweet as a full tank of gas and somewhere to go.
You get to see what you choose to see and how you choose to see it. How will you see it? As if it is nothing? As if you’re in love? It’s your choice.
Tired of the movie of your life? I love how Alan Cohen said in yesterday’s message, “It’s your movie! Change the script!” So true. Wayne Dyer has said, “change the way you look at things and the things you look at change!” So true. Life is not in things. It is in the way we see, what we see, how we feel when we see, hear, touch, smell. It’s the experience of it all. So what kind of experience do you want to have?
I’ve Chosen Mine. I Choose To Be In Love.
Spread Some Joy Today–by choosing love, appreciation, joy. They aren’t for sale. They are free, and all come from choosing.