“The most satisfying aspect of Deliberate Creation comes from being sensitive to the way the thoughts you are thinking feel, for then it is possible to modify a bad-feeling thought to one that feels better, and to thereby improve your point of attraction before something unwanted manifests. It is far easier–before an unwanted physical manifestation appears–to deliberately change the direction of your thought to something that feels better.
Without making the correlation between your thoughts and feelings and the manifestation that are occurring, you have no conscious control of what happens in your experience.
Deliberate Creation is not about the condition changing and then your finding a better feeling in response to the changed condition. Deliberate Creation is about choosing a thought that feels good when you choose it–which then cause the condition to change."
— Abraham, Esther Hicks